How to Get Rid of a Problem
Look at any nuisance or problem on a larger scale. The bigger is your problem the larger should be a scale. Distance yourself, imagine floating above yourself, would it matter if you were as far as a bird or an airplane.
If your problem was a fish would it matter for the ocean?
Take a time scale, if you wish.
Would you even remember of that disappointment in, say, 1, 2 or 3 years?
If not, why give a damn?
Life is a system, system with rules. Live your life as a player, enjoy it. Be positive. See any deprivation as a new basis for a bunch of other cool stuff and new opportunities.